Sex Tips for Men – How to Get Her Back

Posted: 10th December 2011 by jamesbegood1980 in Sex Tips for Men
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So your girlfriend broke up with you?  Did she tell you why?  Do you believe her reason?  Sometimes, women break up with men and they don’t tell them the real reason and this could be the case with you.  She wants to preserve your pride by not telling you that you’re lacking in the sex department.  Let’s face it.  Sex plays an important part in a relationship and if you can’t satisfy your partner, it’s hard to have a good relationship.

She Still Loves You

The mere fact that she wants to preserve your pride means something – she still loves you.  So it’s up to you to gauge for yourself if this is the case or not.  Throw your pride out the window and admit that at least you could be better in bed.  Work on your skills and you can get her back.

Sex Tips for Men

Now, don’t go texting her that you’re working hard to be better in bed.  Chances are, she won’t admit that it’s the reason for fear of being called superficial.  You’re now going to do two things.  First, you’re going to improve your skills in bed.  Second, you’re going to get her back so you can show off your new found skills.  Let’s tackle the first thing first.

Sex Tips for Men

So how can you improve your skills in bed?  Well, there are several areas for consideration.  If you want to be better in bed, you need to develop these areas:

  • Positions
How many positions do you know?  The better question is – how many positions do you use?  If you’ve been doing the missionary position each and every night, there’s a good chance that your ex-girlfriend was bored.  The missionary is a good position but it can get boring if that’s all you do.  So you need to learn new positions.  Better yet, you need to learn the BEST sex positions.
  • Foreplay
In some cases, the appetizer is better than the main course.  Of course, an appetizer with the main course is best.  This is why you need to improve your foreplay skills.  For starters, you can learn a lot from lesbian sex.
  • Satisfying her
In most cases, it’s all about the Big O.  If you can’t make her achieve this, then you’re failing as a partner in bed.  However, helping her achieve the Big O shouldn’t be a one time thing.  If you want to be a beast in bed, you need to help her achieve multiple Big Os. Check out the link above in order to know how to develop in these areas.

Now that you know how to develop your sex skills, it’s up to you to take action.  Once you’re confident that you can now satisfy her in bed, it’s time to get her back!

Again, this is not yet the time to text her for a booty call.  You need to make her do that.  It’s not the other way around.  How are you going to do this?

1.  Be unavailable

You have to be unavailable.  The more unavailable you are, the more desirable you become.  Better yet, go out on a date with another woman who’s not a friend of your ex.  (Hint: You can practice your new found skills on this woman.)  Once she founds out, she’ll start to get jealous because someone finds you desirable.  She’ll start claiming her territory and because she’s curious as to why you’re not texting her, she’ll be the one to text you to ask what’s up.

2.  Push the right buttons

You should know where her buttons are.  What makes her tick?  Do it.  Just don’t overdo it.  She’ll start to think that maybe she made a mistake.  Maybe she’d want to get together for some casual sex.  This is perfect for you.  You can show off your new found skills.  She’ll be pleasantly-surprised and before you know it, she’s already apologizing for her mistake.  You know what’s going to happen next.

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